When it comes to organizing, there are many different reasons people say it’s just not for them. However, the reasons stem from misconceptions about what it means to be organized. Let’s take a look at the seven most common organizing myths and the truth behind them.
1. Organizing is only for type-a people.
One of the most common misconceptions people have about organizing is that it’s something only high-strung, type-a people do. While it’s true that it might come more naturally, or even be fun, for those of us who fit that description, getting organized is a valuable tool for anyone. Not only does it allow you to be more efficient and more productive, but it also saves you time and money.
2. Organizing takes too much time.
Of course, some of you might be wondering how an activity that takes so much time can actually save you time. In reality, getting–and staying–organized doesn’t have to take a lot of time. Depending on the current state of your home, it can be overwhelming to figure out where you should even start. The answer is to start with one small room or area at a time. Investing an hour to organize your pantry, or an afternoon to sort through your kids’ toys pays off when you don’t waste minutes every day looking for certain ingredients or a half-hour trying to find the pieces to a specific game your children want to play.
3. Getting organized is frustrating.
Getting organized can be frustrating, but it doesn’t have to be. I recommend a three-step method to organizing that starts with pulling everything out of the room or area you’re tackling. Next, sort everything into three piles: keep, throw away, give away. Then start putting things away that you’re going to keep, thinking about what you need to be able to access, what you use most often, and what will work best for you. Start with a small area so you don’t become overwhelmed, and put as much in the throw away or give away piles as you can. The less stuff you have, the less frustrating it will be!
4. Organizing has to be expensive.
I’ll admit that I sometimes drool over all of the home organizing accessories and doodads that are available these days, all to make organizing easier and prettier. But the truth is there are plenty of ways to organize that don’t cost anything, and if you’ve got a creative streak, you can still make them just as pretty. Be creative and think outside of the box about things you can repurpose or recycle in your quest to get organized.
5. Once you organize your home, it just stays that way.
In many ways, this myth can be the most discouraging of them all. If you’ve ever spent a weekend organizing, only to look back three months later and find everything in shambles once again, you know what I mean! For other people, the idea of having to organize again and again in order to keep your home in order just takes you back to myths number one and two and reinforces that organizing isn’t for you. But the important part of this principle is not that you have to invest hours upon hours in organizing each week. Once you have a system in place, take just a couple of minutes each day or each week to either put things away, throw them away or give them away so that your system isn’t overwhelmed by stuff.
6. A good organizing system will work for anyone.
I have a lot of admiration for women like the Flylady and Lorie Marrero, the creator of ClutterDiet. They’ve motivated so many people to get on top of their household duties and get organized. However, the reality is that most people who follow these systems end up tweaking them to work best for their own life, and you have to know that in advance, or you can easily become discouraged by your inability to follow the system down to the tiniest detail. We all have different priorities, responsibilities and lifestyles, and if your organizational systems don't reflect these differences, chances are that they won’t last.
7. There is a right way and a wrong way to organize.
The thing I stress most often to people is that there is no right and wrong way to organize. The right way to organize for your family is the way that works for you! Dorothy at Urban Servant, who is a mother of 10 beautiful children, recently shared her laundry method, which perfectly illustrates this principle.
“I don’t fold anyone’s laundry but daddy’s. We have shelving with 12 laundry baskets in three rows, and I can toss clean items into anyone’s bin without too much effort. I sort a large load in about 3 minutes and move on to the next thing. Of course that means we don’t own anything that wrinkles or needs much special care, but I don’t miss them.
This is a perfect example and one that I’ve used in the past myself. You should not feel guilty if the way you do laundry is to simply sort the clean clothes into separate baskets and call it a day. I’m a little too type-a for that system, and because it would drive me nuts, it’s not the right system for me. But if it’s the system that works for you, then stop feeling guilty about it and consider yourself organized!
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Mandi Ehman is mom to four spunky little girls. She
believes that organizing only lasts if you do it your way – to fit your
needs, your preferences and your lifestyle. She shares organizing and
time management tips at Organizing Your Way and tips for simplifying and beautifying your home at Simple Nest.
